Pr. 12:4 says, “An excellent wife is the crown of her husband, but she who causes shame is like rottenness in his bones.”
This rottenness in his bones means it preys upon him, and causes decay. It consumes him. That sounds horrible!!
I know a good way to prevent this from happening. Read this question that author, Dannah Gresh, asks. “Do you spend more time in front of the mirror making yourself externally beautiful, or do you spend more time developing your inner beauty through quiet communion with God?”
1 Peter 3:3-6 talks about women not letting their adornment be merely outward. We don’t have to have the best make up or wardrobe. We don’t have to have the perfect hairstyle or jewelry. We don’t have to be the most ‘up with the times.’ Superior cooking skills aren’t required.
An excellent wife…or a wife of valor, as some translations say…is one who looks well to the ways of her household, and is pious and prudent.
Now, by all means, please fix your hair. However, if for every minute spent in front of the mirror, we spent a minute or more with God, we will develop a true and deep relationship with God. When we develop that relationship with God, we cultivate a spirit more like God’s. This is the prescription to help prevent us from causing bone rot in those we love.
Striving to be truly beautiful,