Pr. 15:8: “The sacrifice of the wicked is an abomination to the Lord, but the prayer of the upright is His delight.”
My friend’s mother passed away yesterday morning. She was a Christian who had lived a full life. She was ready to go home to be with the Lord, and what more fitting day than Valentines Day to go home to her true love.
Even though her family has some peace in her passing, she is now very absent from their lives, and there is still grief in loss. When someone we love dies, we are keenly aware of the fact that they can never be replaced. We experience a void that can never be filled. There is no one who can step into the place of anyone who has passed and fill their spot. The person we have lost will always be lost, and that brings us very real pain.
There are also families who have a loved one who is missing. The family has no clue if their loved one is alive or dead; they just know they are gone. The void that’s left if palpable…unrelenting. The grief they experience is never-ending.
This made me think about God and how He must feel when we are lost to Him. Sin separates us from the Lord. He is Holy, which means He cannot tolerate sin. Even as Jesus hung dying on the cross, the Lord could not look upon Him. The sin upon Jesus separated them. When we live our lives in sin, and are separate from God, do you think He grieves the way we do when we lose the one we love?
In the parable of the lost son, Jesus illustrates what happens when a sinner, who was lost and dead, comes back. When the father saw his son, he ran to him, fell on his neck, and kissed him. He was overjoyed and called for a celebration. He said, “for this my son was dead and is alive again; he was lost and is found.” Isn’t that how we would feel if we could possibly be reunited with the one we love who was lost or dead? Imagine the joy we would feel!
The Word tells us that when someone who was lost comes to the Lord there is rejoicing in heaven. I truly believe that being created in God’s image means that our emotions are not unique to us, but are part of His own make up. This brings new meaning to the fact that the prayers of the upright are His delight. If our loved one, who was lost or dead, comes back to us, wouldn’t we delight in their words, as well?
This makes me look at living a life separate from God very differently. If, in understanding grief, we can put ourselves in His place…imagine His grief for one who is lost…could we more understand His love for us? We are His children. He desperately loves us! He wants us to be with Him—forever.