Pr. 18:1: “A man who isolates himself seeks his own desire; he rages against all wise judgment.”
Yesterday I spent some time at a rebound center for men struggling with addictions and homelessness. This verse reminds me of them. The men there have chosen to voluntarily enroll themselves in an intense 90-day program recovery program where they submit themselves and their desires to another’s authority for 90 days. These adult men enter into an environment where they become fully accountable to others, including curfews, breathalyzer tests, drug screens, group sessions, chapel services, and work assignments.
These men have chosen not to isolate themselves in their out-of-control cycles, but to use wise judgment and allow themselves to be taught and trained in ways to break out of these cycles. Instead of raging against wise judgment, they choose to seek the wisdom of people who are offering help. It is good, too, as this center logs a completion rate that is twice the national average.
The difference between this place and the 12-step Alcoholics Anonymous program? Jesus Christ. They call upon the grace and power of the Lord, Jesus Christ. God’s grace is the hope to which they cling, and they understand there is one more powerful than any addiction or circumstance in their lives.
One of the verses I saw on the wall was 1 Tim. 1:15, “This is a faithful saying and worthy of all acceptance, that Christ Jesus came into the world to save sinners, of whom I am chief.” God’s grace is for all of us. Each one of us sins, but that is exactly why Christ Jesus came into the world. He loves us and offered salvation to us all on the cross at Calvary.
If you find yourself in a cycle of brokenness, depression, oppression, addiction, harmful habits, powerlessness, shame, inferiority, or any other thing, you will find grace at the cross of Jesus. There was a song we sang when I was growing up that said, “There’s room at the cross for you.” God is just waiting on you to run to Him for help. Call upon the name of the Lord. He is faithful to hear our prayers. He will be a shield for you, a Defender, a strong tower, and will give the help you need.
Do not isolate yourself, but like the men at this recovery center, allow yourself to submit to wise judgment. You may not need to enroll at a recovery center, but maybe you need accountability to or training from another. Do not isolate yourself from the Lord, either, which is so easy to do in times of trouble. Cry unto the Lord and He will hear you and lift your head out of shame and cycles that bind you. He is your Creator, your Sustainer, your Savior, and your Deliverer. There is room for you.